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Homemade Liquid Fabric Softener: Which recipe works best?

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This is the very best homemade fabric softener recipe ever. Easy to make with 3 ingredients, you’ll have a batch made in just 5 minutes. Use this right alongside my homemade laundry detergent recipe and you’ll be money too.

3 large mason jars filled with fabric softener with towels and a copper measuring glass next to them.

Once upon a time, I set out to find the best homemade liquid fabric softener that could be found in the great vast land called the internet. And whadayaknow, I found there really aren’t that many variations. 2, in fact.

Sure there were some slight variations in the amounts of ingredients, but most recipes gravitated toward 1 of 2 main recipes.

So, I decided that instead of reinventing the wheel, it would be smarter to test each recipe out to see if either of them really worked, if they were cost effective, and how they compare to the other. Welcome to your local elementary school science fair.

Without further adieu, let’s meet the contestants.

A clear mason jar filled with vinegar on top of a white towel with a bottle of lavender Doterra essential oil and a piece of lavender.

Recipe #1: Vinegar & Baking Soda as Fabric Softener

Ingredients

  • 6 cups vinegar
  • 1 cup baking soda
  • 15 drops essential oil (optional) — here is my favorite brand
A glass bowl with vinegar in it,  a blue bowl with baking soda in it and a bottle of lavender Doterra essential oil and a piece of lavender by it.

Directions

Pour the vinegar into a large bowl. Add your essential oil, if using. I chose to use lavender since that seemed like a nice smelling fabric scent to me. Add your baking soda. When fizz has settled, pour into storage container of choice. Use up to 1 cup (depending on load size) per load. I poured mine right into the regular fabric softener location.

Cost

Vinegar: $0.66 (I buy my vinegar from Costco for cheap!)
Baking Soda: $0.50
Essential Oil: $1.01 (optional, and price will vary depending on oil and quality used)
Total Cost: $2.17

Without the essential oil, this recipe would be much cheaper. I got about 8 loads out of this recipe because I typically run larger loads and used closer to a cup per load. That’s $0.27 per load when using the essential oil.

Order essential oils here.

How did it work?

On a softness scale of 1-10, 1 being super stiff and 10 being the stuff that dreams are made of, I gave this recipe a 7. Softened well enough, but not as much as a typical store bought softener. I doubt my family noticed a difference. The lavender scent was very, very faint. Faint enough, that I don’t think it’s worth adding. If you’re wanting a strong scent, this isn’t the recipe for you. If that isn’t an issue, just use the vinegar and baking soda and you’ll be great!

Do You Have to Use Essential Oils in this Recipe?

The essential oils provide fragrance, but are totally optional. If you don’t already have them on hand, you can leave them out and save money. Your clothes will still be super-soft.

NOTE: Prior to adding the baking soda, the oil might sit on top of the vinegar. After pouring in the baking soda and letting it dissolve, the oil no longer sits at the top. Voila!

Also, I’ve had no issues with getting any essential oil spots on my clothes.

A mason jar with white fabric softener in it on top of a white towel on white marble.

Recipe #2: Hair Conditioner for Making Fabric Softener

Ingredients:

  • 5 cups hot water
  • 3 cups vinegar
  • 1 cup hair conditioner
A glass bowl with warm water in it, a green bowl with vinegar in it and a smaller green bowl with conditioner in it with towels folded on the side.

Directions:

Mix hot water and conditioner together in medium bowl. (The hot water helps smooth any clumps from the conditioner). Mix in vinegar and pour in container of choice. Use the same amount as you would a store bought softener and add to the regular softener spot in your washer or during the rinse cycle. Note: I used a regular cheapo conditioner from the dollar store. The higher quality conditioners won’t make any noticeable differences, so don’t waste your money!

Cost

Water: Free
Vinegar: $0.33
Conditioner: $0.71 (I bought a large size from Family Dollar for $2)
Total Cost: $1.04

This provides anywhere from 30-40 loads worth, depending on load size. That works out to be $0.03-$0.05 per load. SUPER CHEAP.

This recipe would also work great with any organic conditioner as well. If you use organic, make sure you price compare to a similar type softener like 7th Generation. The price will definitely be more than our regular recipe, but will still be much cheaper than buying regular organic softener.

How did it work?

On the softness scale from 1-10, 1 being super stiff and 10 being the stuff that dreams are made of, I give this recipe a solid 8. Very close to what a regular fabric softener does. When it comes to smell, the scent was light but still there. It’s definitely not overpowering, but when you take a big whiff it’s definitely there. This may also vary depending on your conditioner. Maybe other scents will come through stronger/softer?

What Kind of Conditioner Should I Use?

I used a low-priced conditioner from the dollar store. The higher quality conditioners won’t make any noticeable difference, so don’t waste your money!

Some of my favorite conditioners in terms of fragrance are Clairol Herbal Essence, Dove, Wella Balsam, and Breck. 

Make your own liquid fabric softener for pennies! Only takes a minute, but saves a lot of money.

How To Make Your Clothes Smell Like Downy?

If you can’t bear to part ways with the scent of Downy, you could add some of this Downy copycat fragrance oil (Amazon.com) to your homemade fabric softener. I haven’t tried it myself yet, because that just costs more money, haha! But I would love to hear your experiences if you try it out (share in the comments section below).

A mason jar filled with white fabric softener and a copper measuring cup with white liquid in it with a basket of laundry behind it.

Conclusion for which Homemade Fabric Softener works Best

Overall, I preferred the conditioner based recipe. It was much cheaper per use and worked better than the straight vinegar and baking soda. Clothes were softer and I like having a gentle scent to my clothes as well.  

Below you’ll find the full printable version of this conditioner version since it was the best of 2 fabric softner recipes.

A mason jar with white fabric softener pouring into a copper measuring cup with white liquid in it with a basket of laundry behind it.

How Much Homemade Fabric Softener Should I Use?

Use up to 1 cup (depending on load size) per load. I pour mine right into the regular fabric softener location in the washing machine and it works perfectly!

Use a Sponge to Make a Dryer Sheet

Yep… this will make your fabric softener recipe go even further! All you need to do is take a clean sponge, dip it into the make it yourself fabric softener, wring it out very well and toss it into the dryer with your clothes. Then repeat.

A hand putting a white sponge in a dryer with sheets in it.

Homemade Fabric Softener

This gentle homemade fabric softener is so easy to create, and costs just pennies to make. It softens your clothes and towels just like store bought fabric softener.
4.73 from 11 votes
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Course: homemade diy
Cuisine: Cleaners
Keyword: DIY Fabric Softener, Homemade Fabric Softener
Prep Time: 5 minutes
Total Time: 5 minutes
Servings: 35 loads of laundry
Author: Karrie

Ingredients

  • 5 cups hot distilled water
  • 3 cups vinegar
  • 1 cup hair conditioner
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Instructions

  • In a medium bowl add very hot water and the conditioner. (Water doesn't need to be boiling, but hot enough that it helps smooth any clumps from the conditioner).
  • Whisk together until smooth and clump free.
  • Add in vinegar and whisk to combine.
  • Pour into containers of choice such as wide mouth quart mason jars. Store in air tight container at room temperature for up to 5 months.
    pouring fabric softener into a funneled mason jar
  • Use the same amount as you would a store bought softener and add to the regular softener spot in your washer or during the rinse cycle. Usually for me this is around 1/2 cup to 1 cup softener per load.

Notes

  • No need to spend extra money on expensive conditioner for this recipe, cheap vs quality conditioners had no noticeable differences. Dollar store conditioner works fine.
  • Some of my favorite conditioners in terms of fragrance are Clairol Herbal Essence, Dove, Wella Balsam, and Breck.
  • Use this recipe as a DIY dryer sheet by dipping a sponge in the solution, wringing it out very very well and tossing it into your dryer cycle.
  • If you don’t have conditioner you can make the other style of homemade fabric softener I shared in the blog post by mixing together 6 cups vinegar, 1 cup baking soda and optionally 15 drops of essential oil. Whisk together and add to machines. Doesn’t produce as soft as results but it’s better than nothing. 
Make your own fabric softener for cheap! 2 different recipes.

This recipe was first posted March 2014, but has been updated with new photos and better detailed instructions & tips on 12/8/20.

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December 9, 2020
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Comments

  1. Alexandra Weston says

    December 3, 2020

    Doesn’t combining vinegar and baking soda just create water after it’s completely dissolved… why would combining the two make an effective (more than just plain water) fabric softener?

    Reply
    • Darie says

      January 14, 2021

      Hi! When vinegar and baking soda are first mixed together, hydrogen ions in the vinegar react with the sodium and bicarbonate ions in the baking soda. The result of this initial reaction is two new chemicals: carbonic acid and sodium acetate. Water is only made when a strong acid mixes with a strong base. Hope this helps!

      Reply
  2. Sandy says

    November 13, 2020

    5 stars
    I colour my own hair at home, so always have the conditioner sachets. I never use them, as I prefer to use my own conditioner. I scaled it down to make 1 litre of fabric softener, using a few drops of essential oils for fragrance. I love this recipe, and it worked amazing. My towels and sheets are soft and fluffy and smell amazing!!

    Reply
  3. bes says

    November 9, 2020

    5 stars
    I also was told the vinegar is helpful for the machine to keep mold or other unpleasant opportunistic thingies from making a home there.

    Reply
  4. Nicky Manson says

    May 8, 2020

    5 stars
    My closest dollar store closed and with the state on lockdown, transit takes forever and I’m starting to run out the stuff I always get there…. Like dryer sheets and fabric softener. I read somewhere that dryer sheets could be made from liquid fabric softener so I found your page looking for diy fabric softener. SoOOo glad I found your page, I didn’t think the recipe was going to be that easy! Thank you!!! Now I just gotta find how to make this into dryer sheets.. the search continues.. thank you for a great start to my mission..

    Reply
    • Traci says

      June 8, 2020

      I “make” dryer sheets by soaking cheap sponges in 1 to 1 mix of fabric softner and water. Squeeze out excess so 9ts not dripping. I also use tennis balls with a few drops of essential oils, works the same as the expensive wool balls.

      Reply
    • Tanya Morris says

      August 23, 2020

      Can I add essential oils to the conditioner fabric softener mix? Was just wondering if we could for our favorite smells? Thanks for the recipe

      Reply
  5. Stacey says

    March 6, 2020

    Could you use washing soda in place of baking soda? I have a huge bag I found for cheap.

    Reply
    • Karrie says

      March 6, 2020

      Hi, no, that isn’t the same thing. But you can use this recipe if you have washing soda: https://happymoneysaver.com/making-your-own-laundry-detergent-worth-the-cost/

      Reply
  6. Nicola says

    January 17, 2020

    Trying the conditioner version now as no other version sounded right and no one done a tried and tested review. Looking forward to the results as I have just made a batch and using my first one now.

    Reply
  7. Paul Kemp says

    January 7, 2020

    What type of vinigar do you use. Is it white wine type ?
    I’m just starting to make my own washing liquid and fabric softener so this is very interesting to try different methods
    Thanks

    Reply
    • Shelley says

      February 5, 2020

      White Distilled Vinegar.

      Reply
      • Nasrin Rajani says

        May 4, 2020

        Hello, does malt vinegar works same as white vinegar? Thanks .

      • Karrie says

        May 4, 2020

        Hi, malt vinegar has a dark color to it, so I wouldn’t suggest using it…. it might stain your clothes.

  8. Berni says

    December 13, 2019

    Question;
    Do the clothes smell like vinegar at all?… using either recipe ?
    I hate the smell?

    Reply
    • Julia says

      January 7, 2020

      No vinegar smell at all, don’t worry about it!

      Reply
  9. Nancy Ramminger says

    November 22, 2019

    I have used this for the past 2 years love it.

    Reply
  10. Kelli says

    September 4, 2019

    Very helpful! Thank you!!!

    Reply
  11. Ronaye Tylor says

    July 27, 2019

    5 stars
    Exceloent tip I’m going to use it today in my new portable washer! Love environmentally friendley homemade products! They’ve proven on Market Pkace that Green products are not eviornmetally safe. Cheaper & better is best. I also air dry my laundry! Thank you for posting this.

    Reply
  12. RC says

    July 24, 2019

    4 stars
    Thanks for this info, it’s great to see someone as cheap as I am!! I really like your vinegar and baking soda recipe, cannot use the fragrance because that is a major issue. I already make homemade laundry detergent and it has saved lots over the years. (And no itching!!)

    Reply
  13. Brenda says

    June 27, 2019

    Thanks for the recipes. I really like the one with conditioner.
    Psst – a bit of free proofreading: “Whalah” is spelled voilà.

    Reply
    • N.S. says

      July 11, 2019

      Arrogant much?

      Reply
      • Stephanie says

        August 21, 2019

        5 stars
        She wasn’t being arrogant. She was being helpful. What is arrogant is to think that you know everything and don’t need to learn how to do, say or spell things correctly. We learn from Karrie and I’m thankful for it. Why can’t Karrie be thankful to learn from N.S.?
        PS Karrie. I used the conditioner one and love it. Thanks 🙂

      • Shelly says

        August 8, 2020

        5 stars
        Did hair conditioner and hot water!! Worked great!!

    • Amber Tyre says

      March 7, 2020

      Is this safe for He high efficiency maytag washer

      Reply
      • Cindy Yarghn says

        December 11, 2020

        To be honest, vinegar is not good in any machine. The rubber gaskets and such get ruined by itm causing you to replace a machine that should have lasted 10 in just 3 years! Just be careful what you decide.

  14. Doris says

    May 19, 2019

    When we travel with our 5th wheel I do laundry in the RV Parks. I have run across the spray rinse a few times. I let the washer go into the rinse cycle After the clothes have been sprayed a little to remove the majority of detergent, I have softener in a spray bottle that I spray over the clothes. You may have to move the clothes around s little to reach them all. Then close lid and finish cycle. If your softener is thick you can dilute with water

    Reply
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