Miss Ginger (my favorite chicken) is no longer with us. Yep, if there is a heaven for chickens she is there.
Sigh. I hate posts like this one. Posts that have to share the disappointment and sadness me and some of my children are going through. I get a little uncomfortable sharing because I know many of you folks that have raised farm animals might be judging me and wondering why I even let this one chicken make me so sad. After all, it’s just a chicken right? It sounds silly to even me that I would feel this loss. But I do. I truly am sad. I really really loved Miss Ginger the most. She was like our pet. She totally came up to all of us when we called for her. I could literally just reach my hand down and she would let me pet her without running away. Chickens just don’t usually do that, they are usually nervous around people. Ginger was a special bird.
My daughter Grace is devastated of course. Ginger was her chicken. The reason why Ginger was so friendly was because of the work and love Grace gave her everyday from when she was a chick. Even up until now everyday she still said hello to Ginger and picked her up to talk to her. We wanted to bring her to the fair this summer as she was such a great bird. We wanted to see her raise some baby chicks of her own someday when we moved to my future dream-farm. But those things will not happen now with Ginger.
Miss Ginger lived almost one whole year with us. One awesome year.
How it Happened
My family and I went to Boise this past week over spring break. I hired a nice girl I know to feed and water my dogs and chickens for 4 days while we were away. I told her to just keep my chickens alive, that they didn’t have to be let out of the coop even. But that if she did have time for a few hours she could let them out of the coop so they could get some grass and take dust baths. It was optional.
Apparently all was perfect and well until the last day of her feeding. She came over, didn’t let the chickens out and just fed them. Then went home. Miss Ginger was alive then she said when she left. Later that day her little brother came over and jumped my fence to say hello to my dog. He says he noticed Miss Ginger was dead. But didn’t tell anyone which was odd.
My husband got home and found Miss Ginger dead. Broken neck inside the coop. No blood, no pecking. Laying right next to the door opening. So we know that what most likely happened is that someone opened up the coop door (to which my chickens always want to get out right away) and then accidently shut the door back up on Miss Ginger and broke her neck. We found her lying by the door of the coop. We don’t know who did it, all we know is that she is gone. And we are so sad.
Dad saved my daughter a few feathers before burying her.
Here is a letter my daughter wrote up for Miss Ginger that pretty much sums up her heart-break.
As for me… I am just feeling a bit sad and disappointed. Wondering if I really should have left to go out of town for spring break. I go out to see the other three chickens, knowing none of them are as friendly as Ginger was and I seem to see just see plain ole’ boring chickens.
So that is what is happening right now.
Please try not to mock me for making a whole post just for one chicken. We loved Miss Ginger. We really did. And were planning on letting her grow to a nice old age with us.
But I am still grateful to the Lord for all my blessings. And for the chance we got to experience such a sweet nice chicken.
Comments & Reviews
Robin says
Oh Karrie,
My heart aches for you and Grace ! I love your posts about “the girls” because it makes me think of my own childhood & teenage years with chickens & ducks !! The personalities are what kept my family hooked on our ever growing flocks – even after we girls left home, my Mom kept them.
We had a smoking rooster (he flew the coop & went for our neighbor who sat on the back porch in the evenings smoking….snatched the cigarettes & flew off until chased down by screaming children) and my circus performing mallard (who I hatched in an incubator) …he balanced on 5# coffee cans & roll/walked across the yard. Lucky the duck lived 7 lucky years.
My love to you & your family – please keep your beautiful heart warming stories coming !
Grace’s note made me tear up – special prayers for that sweet girl !
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks so much, Robin!
Chery says
I’m sorry, I for to say…So so sorry about your chicken.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks Chery! She was such a special chicken and we definitely were lucky to have her!
Chery says
So so about your chicken. My eyes filled with tears reading your daughter’s letter. Very sad. How lucky for your chicken he was so loved and now missed. Every animal I feel is so special to us. I sincerely hope you find another special chicken that can uplift your hearts. Thank you for sharing the news about your chicken passing, and please don’t feel weird about loving a chicken. What ever happened to the person that was suppose to take of him? I hope that person has regrets. Sending condolences to your family.
Bethy says
My heart is broken, I am so sorry! I cant put it into words. Our chickens are having a party together.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Oh that is such a sweet thought!
veronica says
That’s awful! I am so sad for you and your sweet little Grace 🙁
I have 4 girls and my Buff Orpington is my fav too! Buffy AKA Dorothy. Mine are the Golden girls. Blanche, (Easter Egger) Dorothy (Buff), Rose ( Gold laced Wyndotte) Sophia, (Silver laced wynadotte)
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Veronica!
Anita says
I’m really sorry to hear, I was enjoying your stories about your special chicken. I was a little heart retched reading it. RIP Ginger.
Happy.MoneySaver says
I know..it breaks my heart thinking about it!
Valerie says
So sad 🙁
My smiley had a pair of pet turkeys when I was in high school. Tom and Tilly. Tim died of a heart attack- a condition that is apparently common, but was such a shock. We were all so sad about it, even Tilly, who mourned him in their coop for a littleore than a week, she just stayed on her perch cooing and rocking. It was heartbreaking to see such pain in an animal that most people don’t associate with emotions. A few years later, I was in college, and a weasel got into Tillys pen and took her from us, which was such a deviating loss, because we (my mom especially) felt that it should have been preventable.
Animals are amazing, all of them. And when we are lucky enough to incorporate them into our everyday lives, we see sides of them that are relatively unknown, and even a chicken can stir love in our hearts. I’m so sorry for you loss, but so happy that you were able to have this wonderful experience with something most people only see as dinner…
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks for sharing your story. Yes, animals are amazing!
Jo ann says
Dear Karrie. Please do not ever apologize for loving one of God’s sweet creatures. I had to wait for tears to dry before I could reply to Miss Ginger’s story. The love you and your daughter gave her is so special. I am sure she is sitting on God’ s shoulder right now. Please hug your baby girl for me. She will learn to love another special pet.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Oh, you are sweet. I definitely will pass on the hug!
Christine B says
I’m so sad to read this news. RIP Ginger.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Christine!
Tori M says
A pet is family. Doesn’t matter what kind of animal.
Your post made me tear up. I’m sorry for what happened. Thank you for sharing with us. A good reminder to give some extra love to our non-human family and friends.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Yes, a pet is family! Thanks, Tori!
dawn says
I love your sweet daughter’s heart and compassion! A hard lesson from life, but one well learned and one that will prepare her for even bigger losses down the road… and one that allows her to one day help others experiencing loss. As we call it, “beauty from ashes”!! Hugs to you both!!
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Dawn!
Amy says
I am so sorry for what happened to Ginger! She was such a beautiful chicken, and it breaks my heart that she died the way she did. Also, I am sorry for your daughter, it sounds like she was a very good Mommy to Ginger. Sending lots of love!
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Amy!
Tania says
I’m so sorry to hear about poor Ginger… and my heart just broke when I saw the picture of your daughter with the feathers in her hand :o(
Tania
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Tania!
Tania says
I’m so sorry to hear about poor Ginger… and my heart just broke when I saw the picture of your daughter with the feathers in her hand :o(
Happy.MoneySaver says
I know that picture breaks my heart too!
Sarah Auzina says
So very sorry for your loss! All animals are friends, it hurts to lose one no matter who they are.
Happy.MoneySaver says
I know..it’s amazing how close you can become to an animal!
Anastasia says
I’m so sorry -it’s so tough to lose a precious chicken! 🙁 Even at the point when we had 60+ chickens, there has always been a special one or two who would come up when we called.
I thought your daughter might like this poem that I found a few months ago.
The Rainbow Bridge…
Just this side of heaven is a place called The Rainbow ridge.
When a beloved pet dies who has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to The Rainbow Bridge.
It is a land of meadows, hills and valleys with lush green grass.
There is always plenty of food and water and sunshine; our friends are warm and comfortable. Those old and frail animals are young again, restored to health and vigor. Those who have been hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again.
The animals play all day;
they are happy and content with each other.
But, there is only one thing missing. They are not with their special person who loved them on earth; the one who had to be left behind. Then the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. The bright eyes are intent;
the eager body quivers. Suddenly he breaks away from the group,
flying over the green grass; his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been seen.
And when you and your special friend meet, you take him in your arms and embrace. The happy kisses rain upon your face.
Your hands again caress the beloved head.
You look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet.
And then, together, you cross The Rainbow Bridge.
Never to be separated.
~ Author Unknown
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thank you! That poem was so sweet!
Lynnette says
We just lost 3 chickens to a couple raccoons, and we were pretty devastated, too. They were our pets-we knew their personalities, and they loved seeing us. Le sigh. I am sorry for your loss!
Happy.MoneySaver says
Oh I am so sorry! It is so hard!
Marion says
Thank you so much for sharing the precious Grace story, and her pictures. She was quite a lovely ‘chick!’ I’m so sorry for you and your family’s heartache over her loss. Animals…what a testimony to the love and care the great creator God puts into all He has done, and the joy and blessing they bring! So glad you had a wonderful year with her! I hope the truth will be told about this accident…for the sake of the conscience of said party. They must be feeling badly…truth can be scary for kids…but it is healing for the soul.
Marion says
I’m sorry…I meant Grace and Ginger story.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Marion!
Penny Grant says
So sorry for your families loss:( – also, what a great job you are doing with your children. Your daughter has compassion and love and it is a learning experience for her to lose a family member, as death is a part of life. You & your husband are awesome parents for letting them grieve for theyr’e sweet ginger. Blessings to you all!
Happy.MoneySaver says
Thanks, Penny. You are so kind!
Suzanne says
Karrie – Three years ago we lost our sweet pony and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of him. The loss was devastating to my two kids whom he “taught” to ride. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Happy.MoneySaver says
Animals are so important but the loss is so hard! I am sorry about your pony.